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The reason you procrastinate (It's not what you think) | Mel Robbins
 
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One of the questions from the audience at a recent Q&A: "How do I stop putting off the things I know I need to do?" Research shows that even though you relate to your procrastination as a way to avoid doing something, you actually put things on the back burner as a response to stress. In this video, I share how to handle that stress so you can start taking action and leave procrastination (and the guilt that comes with it) in the dust once and for all. PS–Yes, I was sick with the flu when this video was filmed, but lots of self care happened before and after! --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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How to know if you're making the right decision | MEL ROBBINS
 
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This is a question I get every. single. day. Sometimes it's in an email, and other times it's from a good friend. "How do I know if I am making the RIGHT decision?" In this video, I dive into a the difference between the two kinds of decisions you can make, and how to tune into either one, no matter how difficult it may be. So, wanna know how to make a powerful decision? Watch this. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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How to stop feeling overwhelmed right now | Mel Robbins
 
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In this video, I'm going to teach you a "magic trick" that I use almost every day. Why's it magic? Because of what it makes disappear.  Yup, using a pitcher of water, a mason jar, and a piece of paper, I will show you a trick that makes overwhelm vanish.   I call it a "brain dump." You've got to see it to believe it. It's pretty nifty...and works like a charm. The next time you feel overwhelmed, don't let it get the best of you–make your overwhelm disappear with a brain dump. Even when you're feeling stressed and like you're losing control of your time, this strategy helps ground you in the present and make progress on the things that matter. In the comments, let me know how using the "brain dump" strategy works for you. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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The hard truth about making your dreams come true | Mel Robbins Live
 
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Let's face it: you're never going to feel like doing the things you need to do. A few years ago, I gave a TEDx talk, and in that talk, I spoke about the need to push yourself. Since then, thousands of you have written to me about this concept and we're diving into it even more in this video. As adults, we no longer have teachers, parents, and coaches pushing us to do the things that serve us. No one is coming. No one is there to push you, to tell you to turn the TV off, to get out and exercise, to write the business plan for you...it's all up to you. You're going to need to push yourself and parent yourself if you want to make your dreams come true. And when you accept the fact that you're always going to need to give yourself a push, there's a tremendous amount of liberation. Let me know in the comments–how do you give yourself the push to do the things you need to do (but don't feel like doing)? --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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STOP searching for your passion and do this instead | Mel Robbins
 
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Looking for your passion? If you find it, congrats! For many, the idea of searching for your passion causes more stress and concern over the future than necessary. Truth is, the things that energize you are going to change frequently and over time. What energized me today won't necessarily energize me next week. So, instead of trying to FIND a passion or a purpose, stay tuned to what ENERGIZES you. This is a clip from my episode of Leaders Create Leaders with the incredible Gerard Adams. Find the whole thing here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jeCqlCZovaM --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Don't Know What You Want? Answer This Question #MelRobbinsLive
 
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One of the most common questions I get is, "How do I figure out what I truly want?" You DO know what you want. You've just convinced yourself that you can't have it, or you're too old, yada yada yada... We, as humans, try to convince ourselves that we don't know what we want to make us feel comfortable with not doing it! Well, there is someone out there right now living the life you want to live. If they can have it, YOU can have it. I believe in you, and so should you. For more inspiration connect with me on social! Website: www.MelRobbins.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/melrobbins Instagram: https://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: https://facebook.com/melrobbins Snapchat: @melrobbinslive
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The ONLY way to stop procrastinating | Mel Robbins
 
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If you keep finding yourself stuck in that loop of stress and avoiding the things you know you need to do, WATCH THIS. I give you my tools for dealing with procrastination… I know they’ll work for you too. If you struggle with procrastination, you're not alone. Research from a PhD at the University of Calgary found that 80–95% of college students are procrastinators. There's also nothing wrong with you. You don't lack willpower, drive, and focus. It also has nothing to do with your work and your ability to get it done. If you beat yourself up for procrastinating, that ends now. And here's why: You're looking at procrastination wrong. Rather than a trait or sign of motivation, it's simply a habit. A habit that comes about in response to life stress. In this video, learn the only way you can break the habit of procrastination–for good. This simple 4-step strategy will help you stop procrastinating and in the process make you happier and less stressed. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Why you need an evening routine | Mel Robbins
 
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I am a huge advocate for having a solid morning routine. It's what the 5 Second Rule began as: a starting ritual to boost your mornings and productivity throughout the day. Every one who excels at achieving their goals and dreams, great leaders and executives, and people you admire have one thing in common: an unshakeable morning routine. In this video, I detail the five steps I take, every evening, to help support the morning routine I depend on to be a CEO, top booked speaker and influencer, and mom. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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If You Struggle With Anxiety, This Mind Trick Will Change Your Life | Mel Robbins
 
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Living with severe anxiety and panic for most of my life, I never imagined a day where I would wake up without worry, fear, and anticipation – the kind that makes getting out of bed seem impossible. I remember staying under the covers hiding from every problem I thought I had, making life that much harder for myself and the people I love most. You don't have to let anxiety rule your life. Seek the help you need and be open with those who love you. And, when you find yourself in the middle of having a panic attack or chronic worrying, try the technique I discuss in this video. I hope it's the start of a new appreciation for yourself. xo For more content like this, follow us on: Facebook: Facebook.com/MelRobbins Instagram: @melrobbinslive Twitter: @MelRobbins Or, to book me for your next event, visit www.melrobbins.com
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Here's A Simple, Proven Way To Live In The Moment
 
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HEY! YOU! The one with the big dreams, the amazing friends, and a heart of gold. Now that I’ve got your attention, and you’re in this moment with me, I wanted to answer a question about the simple proven trick to HOW you live in every moment. The key to being present isn’t constantly reminding yourself to be in the moment more - in fact, that’ll just make it harder. When I find myself starting to dwell on something that has already passed, or I start getting worried about the future (we all do it, yes - especially me), these are the proven ways you can instantly get yourself back to the moment that matters: this one. Experts in psychology have discovered that although much of our happiness is genetically preset, 60% of it depends on one thing - YOUR MIND. It doesn’t matter what has happened, or what may happen. In fact, people that have been through the absolute worst things you can think of are often the happiest, most grateful, and most present people. Why? They take control of their thoughts, they know what truly matters to them, and when worry or overwhelm start creeping in to steal the moment - they 5 - 4 - 3 - 2 - 1 and change their thinking from “what’s the worst that could happen?” to “I am exactly where I am supposed to be and my thoughts are in my control.” Website: www.MelRobbins.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/melrobbins Instagram: https://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: https://facebook.com/melrobbins Snapchat: @melrobbinslive
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You don't think you deserve it | Mel Robbins
 
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You know what to do, but you just can't seem to do it. You have a million excuses as to why you can't, the idea isn't good enough, you aren't good enough. Maybe there's something bigger here holding you back, and for good reason. In this video, I talk to an alumna of my Power of You course who wanted to know WHY she just wasn't making her website she knew she needed to make for her business. I think some of you will see yourselves in her story because it is not always about the surface-level issue of "procrastination" or "indecisiveness," sometimes it is much deeper. Sometimes it's because somewhere in your past someone made you feel like you didn't deserve it. But you don't have to stay there forever. If you identify with this video and the feeling of unworthiness, I want you to know that everyone is rooting for you, and the only person that can make it happen and prove that you truly do deserve it...is you. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Feeling Hopeless and Stuck Trying to Lose Weight? You Need To Hear This! #MelRobbinsLive
 
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If you’ve taken on the challenge of taking your health seriously, first, you need to be proud of yourself. Now, if you’re feeling like you have no idea where to begin, that the distance between who you are today and who you want to be is so vast that you’re giving up before you even try; I’m not letting you. Every minute of this is worth your time. I promise, if you take these four simple, free tips to heart, you will be smiling when you look in the mirror before you know it. All change is difficult, but your health, happiness, and confidence are worth every moment spent getting intentional and pushing yourself to do the work. If you’re taking on a new lifestyle or weight loss challenge, head over to my Facebook page and let us cheer for you. For more inspiration connect with me on social! Website: www.MelRobbins.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/melrobbins Instagram: https://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: https://facebook.com/melrobbins Snapchat: @melrobbinslive
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How To Get Through Depression or Personal Struggle and Start Healing Right Now
 
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This question from Ashley is something that’s extraordinarily important. She wrote in asking about my thoughts on “depression, healing, and personal struggle.” As you may already know, I have had my own battles with anxiety, and after my first child was born I had severe postpartum depression. I believe you MUST seek the help you deserve, whether it’s through therapy or medication. And I also believe it is vital, for your life, to do things like exercise and getting out of a difficult environment in order for you to start feeling momentum as you defeat whatever it is that’s bringing you down. Your mental health should be taken as seriously as your physical body. Removing the stigma (I say stigmatism in the video - not perfect! ;)) is essential to being the best version of you. I hope this video helps, and you seek the help you need through family, friends, and trained professionals. 5 - 4 - 3 - 2 - 1 go and take care of YOU, because the world needs you.
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The simple hack to make the best decision | Mel Robbins
 
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Struggle with making decisions? Or is there a big choice that's keeping you up at night? Today, I want to hand you a proven way to make better decisions. I'm going to teach you all about the power of objectivity. It's usually easy for us to give advice to others. Without having a direct emotional tie, the decision-making process can be clear. And research backs this up–we make better decisions for others than we do for ourselves! The solution? Take an objective, zoomed-out, third-party stance on the decision at hand. Today, I'm asking "What can Mel do that's best for Mel?" and I want you to do the same. Let me know in the comments how the power of objectivity can help you can view a current decision through a different lens. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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How to outsmart your self-doubt | Mel Robbins
 
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Breaking news: Imposter Syndrome is normal, and it's actually a very good sign. Feeling like a 'fraud' usually means you are pushing yourself beyond your comfort zone, which is the only way to accomplish the things that matter to you. So, how do you go from being totally uncomfortable and doubting yourself every step of the way to feeling confident in a new job, starting a new business, or doing anything unfamiliar? Consistent action, over and over, not expecting to ever feel like it, and trusting that with every small action you are building and refining the muscle of confidence.
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Get F**cking Real With Yourself | Mel Robbins
 
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"I want abs." "I want to be a millionaire." "I want to have a 500-person company." "I want to be a speaker." Wait...do you, really? It is so easy to say the things you think you want out loud, but when it comes to actually doing them...you never adopt the habits required to accomplish your goals. For years I've been saying "I want the best body of my life." You wanna know how many times I have accomplished that? Zero. Why? Because I don't truly want it. Instead of declaring all of the things you think you want, what about rolling the clock forward and imagining what it will take to get there? And once you do this, once you visualize the early morning workouts or the late nights working to make all the money in the world, if you still want it -- now you can go and get it. Until then, get real with yourself, have compassion for the reality of what you want, and stop putting things on your dream board that don't truly belong there. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Mel Robbins: The TRUTH about friendship
 
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What do you do when your friends judge you because you are trying to do things that improve your life? That’s a big question, and it’s one about friendship in general. In this video I am not holding back when it comes to who you have in your life and how that impacts who you become. The reality is, you can love someone and still not enjoy hanging out with them because of how it affects you. To improve your life sometimes means losing people who are in another stage of theirs. Watch the entire video. There’s a lot of information here that will help you understand who your reason, season, or lifetime friends are. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Tired of Procrastinating? Try This Instead | Mel Robbins
 
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If you've got big dreams but find yourself procrastinating on them, you need to watch this video. This is common in people who want to be entrepreneurs or start a business–they've got tons of ideas but nothing to show for it instead of a million reasons why they haven't made things happen yet. In this, I answer one of the most common questions that I get asked all the time: "What should I do if I want to make a change but I keep holding myself back?" --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Stop caring about what other people think  | Mel Robbins
 
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How do you stop being paralyzed by the things people think about you? Changing your thoughts, simply not caring, or "positive thinking"...way easier said than done. You are still reading for a reason -- today is the day you pick ONE thing you haven't done because you are fearful about what other people think -- and you DO IT. Just one. Whether that is taking the step in booking a trip, getting a URL for a new website you want to start, picking up the phone and calling one person you need to clear the table with, or simply sharing a success on social media. Thinking your way to it won't make it happen. Today, one small move forward. You'll still care what they think, but you'll do it any way, and that is how you stop caring about what everyone else thinks. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Know Someone Who Always Has to Be Right? Here's How To Deal With Them
 
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One of the most difficult things all of us will have to learn how to do in life is deal with difficult people. Sometimes these people are our bosses or colleagues. Other times it’s even more personal – a relative, friend, or partner. Here’s one of the most important things to remember when dealing with difficult people - it’s not about them at all; it’s about how YOU are able to control your own thoughts and emotions – to keep it about the topic of conversation instead of “winning” the debate. Remember that your challenge is not in trying to change that person’s anger or push back – your power lies in how you respond, how you learn to LISTEN and VALIDATE other’s emotions that you may find to be unreasonable or really ridiculous, and how you get them to listen to you – so you can get what you want without losing control of your emotions. Learn how to make heart-first decisions instead of ego-driven ones, and you’ll see just how much more you’ll accomplish. Website: www.MelRobbins.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/melrobbins Instagram: https://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: https://facebook.com/melrobbins Snapchat: @melrobbinslive
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You are wasting your life worrying | Mel Robbins
 
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Doubt, worry, panic…all of these are normal, and they’re going to happen. Every day hundreds of people write in wondering how to “quit worrying” or “not have fear any more”. Truth is, you are going to feel these things for the rest of your life. But when worrying becomes your constant state of mind, when fearing for the worst is your default setting, it’s not because you are ‘naturally a worrier’ it’s because you have a HABIT of worrying. When worry strikes, pay attention to what it’s trying to tell you. We will always have moments of worry, anxiety, and fear, but it doesn’t have to take over our mind, and it is a waste of your precious time to let it take over your life. Music: "Easy" by Chris Prythm https://soundcloud.com/chrisprythm/easy-produced-by-chris-prythm --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Cure your fear of disappointing people | Mel Robbins
 
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During a recent private Q&A with members of the Power of You course, I got asked this question: "How can I pursue and do things I want without the fear of what other people will think?" This question is actually, "How do I get rid of my fear of disappointing people?" In this 3rd episode of MELROBBINSLIVE, I explain the answer–and how the fear of disappointing people (which many of us have) is actually a habit you developed a LONG time ago. How to change the habit? Find its root. In this video, I share how to identify the root that will help you have a better understanding of your habits so you can see them for what they are and take the power away from this completely real and totally unnecessary fear. *Trigger warning: I do share a personal experience with sexual assault so mature audiences only.* --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Three Secrets To Staying Focused #MelRobbinsLive
 
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#MelRobbinsLive: Mel’s Three Secrets To Keeping Focused Jean from Raleigh, NC asks Mel for any tips on staying focused. Mel’s three tricks that she uses every day will instantly increase your own productivity and prove that the easiest way to push yourself to stay with your mission is through being hyper-intentional from the very first moment of your day. It’s simple. Have a question for Mel? E-mail it to hello@melrobbins.com. For more daily motivation and inspiration to love the future you, follow me on social: Website: www.MelRobbins.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/melrobbins Instagram: https://instagram.com/mel_robbins Facebook: https://facebook.com/melrobbins Snapchat: @melrobbinslive
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Instead of quitting the job you hate, do this instead | Mel Robbins
 
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Are you laying in bed right now dreading getting up and going to a job you HATE? This video is for you. If you're frustrated with where you are right now because where you want to be feels really far away, know this: Whatever it is that you're doing right now–no matter how much you hate it–is leading to the thing that you dream of doing (if you allow it). In this video, let me explain to you how you can milk your current job for all of the possible knowledge, experience, and learning opportunities–and use it to launch yourself into the career of your dreams. 10 years ago, I wasn't the most-booked female speaker in the world. I was far from it. But I was honing my skills, learning, trying and failing, and gaining important experiences that have gotten me to where I am today. What skills are you building? Let me know in the comments below. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Why The 5 Second Rule doesn't work | Mel Robbins
 
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While hosting an "Ask Me Anything" with the awesome community at TheSkimm, someone asked me a question I really wanted to address: "Hey, Mel, I tried the 5 Second Rule and it's still NOT working for me. What am I doing wrong?" You're not doing anything wrong. In 2018, if you have resolutions and goals, you are going to have to realize one truth: to get what you want, you have to push yourself beyond the feelings and the resistance. So, when the 5 Second Rule doesn't work...this is why. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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The Secret to Stopping Fear and Anxiety (That Actually Works)
 
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Learn the secret to stopping fear, anxiety, and panic attacks. I'd tried tons of strategies to stop fear and none of them actually worked. I decided to create a new technique, combining the research-backed 5 Second Rule and the latest findings on the topics of fear and anxiety. When nothing else worked for me, this technique did. It allowed me to beat fear, anxiety, panic attacks, and negative thoughts–and as I shared it with others, it worked for them too. For the first time, I'm explaining it here. Try it out and let me know how it works: hello@melrobbins.com You can learn even more about this simple yet highly effective 3-step strategy for stopping fear and anxiety in my new book, The 5 Second Rule: Transform Your Life, Work, and Confidence With Everyday Courage. To order the book, click here: http://amzn.to/2dGcSfN
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How to find your PASSION | MEL ROBBINS
 
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Here's what finding your passion isn't about: doing something because you feel others will approve, starting something and flaming out when it gets 'difficult', or trying things just to prove that you are "successful". Passion is about tuning into the things that energize you. Passion IS energy. So, whether it is a person, place, or thing, I want you to start paying attention to whether something energizes you, or totally depletes you. Do this for five days, and I guarantee your passion will reveal itself before your eyes. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Hate Exercise? Me Too...That's Why I Do This | Mel Robbins
 
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I recently sat down with Cassey Ho of Blogilates and Lisa Bilyeu on their podcast @besheroic. She asked me one of the most common questions she gets, “How do I get motivated, I can’t get off the couch.” The answer is simple, as I told Tom Bilyeu on Impact Theory…MOTIVATION IS GARBAGE. How do you get motivated? You don’t. How do you get off the couch? You push yourself off even though you really don’t want to. The mistake everyone makes is waiting around until they FEEL motivated to “get off the couch”. And the second you realize that you are NEVER going to feel like getting off the couch, your life will change forever. This is one of my fundamental beliefs. Feeling unmotivated is natural, letting it stop you is a choice. I’m just like you. I hate exercise. I never FEEL motivated to get off the couch, and for years I struggled to get off the couch because I was waiting to feel ready to get off the couch. The moment I realized, “Holy shit, the way I feel about exercise is never going to change and I’m never going to feel motivated,” that was the lightbulb moment. There’s a difference between how you feel and the actions you CHOOSE to take. The lightbulb moment for me was when I realized it doesn’t matter how I feel -- I can push myself to do anything if it’s important to me. I no longer WAIT to feel ready, but to actually force myself to do the things I hate because I know I should. I do this with a lot of things: paying taxes, having difficult conversations, eating healthy, going grocery shopping, making my bed, vacuuming, and the list goes on and on. If you stopped waiting to feel like it and started forcing yourself to do the things you don’t feel like doing, you’d have everything you’ve ever wanted. Bottom line: If you hate exercising – you are not alone. Now stop sitting there and waiting for motivation, and 5 – 4 – 3 – 2 – 1…push your ass off the couch and GO! --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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How to handle a breakup | Mel Robbins
 
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Breakups suck. There’s no way around it. Regardless of how you left it, ending a relationship means creating a new way of life. When I got this question about finding yourself after a breakup, I wanted to talk about the three things that you can do to make the most of a crappy situation. Validate - Give yourself time to process, listen to sad songs and binge watch romcoms. Acknowledge your emotions instead of pushing them away. Separate - DELETE your ex from your contacts, get rid of the texts and remove them from your social media accounts. Why? How can you get beyond the pain if you continue to hold onto relics of the past? It’ll be hard, get a friend to support…but delete! Celebrate - This is the time to rediscover yourself, not replace a relationship. Take this time for YOU and enjoy the freedom to do whatever the heck you want. For more about these three tools to find yourself after ending a relationship, watch the video! --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Mel Robbins: How to have difficult conversations
 
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How do you handle having to face a difficult conversation? Most of us try to avoid them altogether. But when we do that, we miss prime opportunities to get what we want, connect, and learn something about ourselves in the process. In this video, I teach you the four techniques I use that can help you improve your communication skills. Using them will help you build your confidence and improve the chances that you reach your desired outcome. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Stop giving a sh*t | Mel Robbins
 
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*Adult language in this one.* You want to be a massive success, break the mold, do it bigger, live better, be the best business owner or writer or artist or parent? Then stop giving a sh*t about what everyone else is going to think about you. The most common reason people get stuck looking at their life from the sidelines is because they put the opinions of other people ahead of their own dreams. Why do you do that? Why do you listen to people who claim to be your friends when they doubt you? Stop letting the fear and doubt sink you before you even try. Stop letting the opinions that may or may not be true steal this one life from you. Stop letting what you look like or sound like stop you from even TRYING! And definitely don't take advice from people you wouldn't trade lives with. What is the cure to doubt? What is the cure to worry? What is the cure to what if? It is action. Action so loud it tunes out everyone else's two cents. Stop whining and wondering, start winning. --- Subscribe to the channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Is it you or your job? | Mel Robbins
 
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If you struggle with going to work every day, if you want to quit 10 times during the work day, if you really resent your boss or feel lost in your career, this one's for you. It's not your job, it's you. And the moment you are able to accept that responsibility, you'll be able to start taking action to get out of the situation or start to enjoy the one you're in. In this video, I give an easy, 3-step framework that you can use, starting RIGHT NOW, to improve your work and get a job that you love. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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How to train your emotions | Mel Robbins
 
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Here is the one takeaway you need to get from this video: It is NORMAL to have emotions rise up and cause you to feel angry, sad, disappointed, or disempowered...and it is a CHOICE to let these emotions lead to snapping, ruining a relationship, or being a jerk. For real. During a Q&A at Audible HQ I got a question about managing emotions. As someone who has spent the past two decades learning how to bypass my initial reactions in order to treat the people I respect and love with care, I promise you can change, too. What's one thing anyone can start doing today that will diffuse some of the negative reactions of anger? Learn to label your emotions before letting them take over. When you start to feel anger understand that this emotional rush is actually causing you to warp how a situation truly is. Instead of jumping to a conclusion and reacting...PAUSE. 5 - 4 - 3 - 2 - 1, mentally acknowledge that anger exists, but do not say "I am angry". Rather, say "I am noticing that I'm getting angry right now." This is essential data. Now you can start to understand your triggers and prepare yourself for how they will or will not affect you moving forward. You can always make things worse, and that's good news, because you can make them better, too. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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The truth about anxiety | Mel Robbins
 
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Anxiety… it is something I am far too familiar with. For my entire life up until my 40s, I battled with debilitating anxiety about absolutely everything. Worried about what people thought of me, worried about pleasing people I was in a relationship with, worried about passing a test but being so paralyzed I couldn’t bring myself to study. I know it…very well. And now that I am on the other side of two decades of being on Zoloft to help me get my life back, I know this, too: Anxiety is NOT a disease. It does not own you. A lot of people hate hearing this. I was one of them. In this video I talk about refining the skill of rewiring your mindset, one moment at a time. The question I get most often is: HOW, MEL? How can I get rid of my anxiety. Watch this video and start conquering your anxiety…today. And, l think you know this, but in case you don’t, I’m not a therapist. I’ve suffered from anxiety for decades. I’ve studied it and the leading research for 10 years. And I have cured myself and taught these simple techniques to my kids and over hundred thousand people in live audiences. They work. But you have to use them over and over. You know what else works? Professional treatment. So, if you have a medical concern, consult your health care provider. And if the quality of your life is suffering because of triggers, worry or anxiety–don’t try to be a hero. Go get a therapist because we all need help facing our issues and healing our minds. This is a clip from my episode of Leaders Create Leaders with the incredible Gerard Adams. Find the whole thing here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jeCqlCZovaM --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Struggling with depression? Have you tried this? | Mel Robbins
 
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If you or someone you love suffers from depression this is a very important video to watch and share. Depression is real. You aren’t alone if you suffer from it and you need to know it is treatable. You also need to know that despite how you feel right now, you can learn to how to live a very happy and successful life even though you are struggling. I met a mom and her son at a Q&A I did after a speech recently. The son was very candid about his struggle with depression and even I got a little choked up as I was talking to him. I shared a concept that has helped my loved ones deal with depression and I want you to listen up and really embrace this idea: there is a difference between what you FEEL and what you push yourself to DO. The real challenge with depression is that it makes you FEEL like you can’t or don’t want to do what you need to do to heal. Depression is lying to you. You can do things that feel hard. No matter how depressed you feel when you wake up, you CAN push yourself to get out of bed. No matter how lethargic you’ve become, you CAN push yourself to go for a walk, get to the gym, or show up at spin class. No matter how much ice cream soothes your sadness, you CAN choose to eat healthier foods. No matter how much you feel like giving up or there’s no point, you CAN choose to push forward. And, no matter how alone you feel, that’s a lie, too. You are not alone and help from a professional or a family member is one phone call away. And you can push yourself to make it, despite how isolated you feel. Depression lies when it convinces you that you can't. You are capable. You do have a choice. It may feel like you don’t, but you always have a choice to push past the lies that depression tells you and take a step forward. As my friend Glennon Doyle Melton says, you can do hard things. And when you understand that depression lies to you I hope a little weight gets lifted and things won’t feel as hard as they have been. I hope you’ll realize that’s the trap depression set, and now you can free yourself by taking action. While you might suffer from depression right now, your life does not have to suffer as well. You do not have to listen to the lies. You can choose to get out of bed, get help and live your life, one small push forward at a time.
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How to Stop Buying Things You Don't Need
 
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Got a question from Sarah about how to stop living a life of materialism, or – put more honestly: how do I stop buying dumb stuff?! Except for simply turning away from the new dress you don’t need or closing out Amazon before it’s too late, you have to understand the reason you spend – it’s because you aren’t being compassionate to yourself in other areas of your life. Overspending has been proven to be a sign of insecurity and lack of compassion for who you are and where you are in your life. You feel a certain way about yourself, and use spending as a temporary solution to make you feel happier in a moment. I have a personal story about how materialism has ruled my mind before, and I’ll share how you can stop yourself in your tracks before making impulsive decisions, and how you can start to show yourself the love and respect you deserve. For more inspiration connect with me on social! Website: www.MelRobbins.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/melrobbins Instagram: https://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: https://facebook.com/melrobbins Snapchat: @melrobbinslive
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Do You Always Procrastinate? This Trick Will End That Habit Once And For All.
 
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Procrastination isn't a lack of willpower. It isn't about laziness or not wanting to get something done. The science behind procrastination will absolutely surprise you - and you'll be relieved when you realize the true cause of the mental roadblocks. How do you get through the tough moments when you find yourself putting off the inevitable? Simple. The 5 Second Rule. Pre-order the book today on Amazon: http://amzn.to/2dGcSfN
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How Comparing Yourself to Everyone Else is Killing Your Dreams
 
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A question from Germany: How do I get more persistence in my life and stop letting bad days outweigh the good ones? The answer is simple – you have to be consistent in order to achieve persistence. Every day is different from the one that came before it. The way to ensure you are persistent in moving forward is to have a routine that works for you and the dreams and goals you have set your heart and mind on. • STOP comparing yourself to other people • Get INTENTIONAL about every moment of every day • Be PATIENT In this video, I outline how I was able to gain control of my own life using the #5SecondRule, as well as how I kicked the bad habits that bring all of us down.
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Mel Robbins: Why showing appreciation is YOUR superpower
 
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When was the last time you told someone you loved how thankful you were for them? As busy humans, we are susceptible to what psychologists call “adaptation”, which makes it easy for our brains to take important people in our lives for granted…but we shouldn’t let that override the opportunity to express gratitude for one another. This is a challenge for you to do something out of your ordinary routine. First, watch this video about the superpower of using video to express your appreciation for someone, like my son Oakley shows us. Then, thank someone in your life who is important to you. But I don’t want you to email or text them; I want you to send a video. Use the Oakley formula and this video as your guide. Tell them why they matter so much to you. What do they do that you appreciate? How does what they do impact your life? Thanking and expressing love to the people in our lives is a cornerstone to make the world a little bit better than we left — and making ourselves better for a lifetime. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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You don't have problems, you have habits | Mel Robbins
 
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You don’t have problems. You have habits. In this behind-the-scenes look from recording a new audio show we are launching this summer, I describe how to easily identify the “problem” anyone who feels stuck is facing. Because I am looking for the HABIT. All of us tend to work on the wrong “problem”. With weight loss we think our problem is that we don’t diet or exercise, when it is actually habits that sabotage any progress we try to make. With business we think our problem is that we procrastinate or don’t work hard enough, when it is actually a habit of holding back, doubting ourselves, or questioning our abilities. You don’t have problems. You have habits. Let me show you how to find them so you can change them. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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The One Simple Trick You Must Use To Live Your Passion #MelRobbinsLive
 
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There’s a misconception that in order to live your dreams you must go all in; quit your job, move away, lock yourself in a room and do nothing but the one thing you want to do. All of these things are actually statistically proven bad ideas. In “Originals” by Adam Grant he cites a study of 5,000 businesses that was conducted over 14 years that proves people who stick with their day jobs while launching the business or side project of their dreams fail 33% less than people who quit their jobs and jump all in. In this video I tell you my favorite trick to use every day to get one step closer to your goals, with or without a day job. For more inspiration follow me on social! Website: www.MelRobbins.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/melrobbins Instagram: https://instagram.com/mel_robbins Facebook: https://facebook.com/melrobbins Snapchat: @melrobbinslive
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Is money more important than your dreams? | Mel Robbins
 
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The honesty shown here is something we can all learn from. Are you someone who has a HUGE money goal that seems completely impossible? Are you someone who thinks they need to quit their job and go "all in" on your new venture? Are you someone that thinks they need to duplicate their current income by starting a side hustle, but you run out of energy after the first day? This one is for you. The conversation in this video will teach you a few things: 1. Get real with your own timeline 2. Be honest about what you truly NEED versus what you truly WANT.
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The truth about intuition | Mel Robbins
 
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How do you know when to follow your intuition? It's a great question because it's easy to get confused between a spark of imagination and something you should go after? In this video I talk with Gerard Adams and explain the easiest way to figure out the truth behind your intuition. For the full version of this video, go here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jeCqlCZovaM& --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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The problem with being perfect | Mel Robbins
 
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The fear of disappointing people is actually double-sided: 1. Some of us use it as a strategy to avoid making a scene. We would rather disappoint ourselves than others, so we sweep our own feelings away. The second thing we do is try to be perfect to completely avoid criticism. This is something that will completely prohibit you from making big strides in any area of life. Why? Because it prevents you from being your authentic self, from trying to grandest ideas, and for believing in a vision only you have. In this vlog, we talk about how perfectionism is not only unattainable, but also a mechanism we use to avoid hearing things that won't harm us, and how we can fear criticism but still push past it because it is inevitable and necessary to living your fullest life. What I’ve also come to learn is that people can be disappointed in you, and still love you. You’re never going to get around this. You will always have people in your life that are going to be disappointed by you. But you have the ability to restructure how you respond to that trigger every time you fear disappointing someone. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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How to kick ass during an interview | Mel Robbins
 
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Getting the interview is great, but how do you walk into that office or location, shake hands with your interviewers, and knock it out of the park? In this video, we go over the six ways you should prepare, listen, speak in order to blow away any one AND make sure the job is a fit for you. You don't have to feel incredibly confident, but you can prepare, communicate incentive and interest, and care about the people you speak to along the way. Leave your best and worst interview memories in the comments! --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Mel Robbins: I'm afraid to embarrass myself
 
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The fear of judgment, failure, and falling flat on your face in front of other people is something we all struggle with at some point in our lives. It's especially common when you're young and inexperienced, and unsure of what the results of your decisions will be. This is completely normal. Letting this fear get in the way of your dreams or curiosity, however, is all on you. The truth is this: in order to become great at anything, in order to improve and learn, in order to discover your interests and passions, you MUST fail. It is a completely unavoidable part of the process, and you're not the only one who is going to go through it. In this video I explain why you should be excited about failing, even if everyone is watching.
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In a relationship? I dare you to do this | Mel Robbins
 
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In this video, you're going to learn the fastest way to improve any relationship. It takes just 5 seconds...and it's terrifying to do. The response you will get could be hilarious at first, but it will open the door to an important conversation that every person in any relationship needs to be having: What do you need from me? And what can I do better for you? 99% of you won't have the guts to do this. But for those of you who do, your relationship will be stronger and you'll be happier because of it. If you text your significant other or another person in your life, let us now how you felt and what you learned. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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This 5 Second Trick Helps You Get MORE Done By Doing LESS
 
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Productivity is a word that often gets confused with doing more. I'm here to tell you that MORE tasks are not what you need – more FOCUS on your most important goals is. In this video, we talk about how you can use the #5SecondRule to push yourself to stop getting distracted on the little to-dos, and start creating huge impact in your life with REAL progress. To order "The 5 Second Rule: Transform your Life, Work, and Confidence with Everyday Courage", click here: http://amzn.to/2dGcSfN
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How to be yourself and not care about judgment | Mel Robbins
 
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I got a question from a fan that I have heard asked in several different ways. "Mel, I feel like I can't be myself and that I am a chameleon depending on who I hang out with." If you feel like you can't be yourself without judgement, I made this one just. for. YOU. --- Subscribe to the channel here: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=melrobbinslive --- Follow me here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/melrobbinslive Facebook: http://facebook.com/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/melrobbins
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Take Control of Your Life With This One Prioritizing Technique
 
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Truth is, no one is more capable than YOU to make anything you want a reality. Most people are never shown how simple it is to really take charge of their mornings and life. Instead of creating a massive to do list that you’ll never accomplish because it’s physically or mentally impossible, you need to get hyper-intentional about the things right in front of you, slipping and sliding because you’re procrastinating or unsure about what to do. Here’s what I do every single day to make sure the most important business and life items are dealt with properly. Not rushed or because someone else needs something from me, but because these small things (not email, social media or texting) done daily lead to big breakthroughs.
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