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Getting stuck in the negatives (and how to get unstuck) | Alison Ledgerwood | TEDxUCDavis

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Alison Ledgerwood joined the Department of Psychology at UC Davis in 2008 after completing her PhD in social psychology at New York University. She is interested in understanding how people think, and how they can think better. Her research, which is funded by the National Science Foundation, investigates how certain ways of thinking about an issue tend to stick in people's heads. Her classes on social psychology focus on understanding the way people think and behave in social situations, and how to harness that knowledge to potentially improve the social world in which we all live. In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized.* (*Subject to certain rules and regulations)
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stanzin` norboo (14 часов назад)
Most easy way to think positive and stay focused can be achieved just by meditating for atleast 15 to 30 minutes . While mediating just concentrate your mind towards the inhale and exhale of air. Surely you will find difference , because it really does.
Racheal Friedrich (1 день назад)
Glass half full or half empty doesn't matter. What matters is how much you want to pour in the glass.
UNSTUCK NOW FOR MORE TIME ... SH@ LISTEN MORE ...
Nunayo Bisnez (3 дня назад)
Thoughts lead to feelings, which lead to behavior. Be aware of, challenge/question, and manage your thoughts so that they don't lead to negative feelings and behaviors. If you don't know how to do this, seek professional help, and there is also lots of info from reputable websites that can provide techniques for managing our thoughts.
Kinjal Kurani (3 дня назад)
Just needed it. I am really grateful today to be listening to this video. Listening to it gave me a little strength to rethink on my situation. Thank you.
rain (4 дня назад)
I am grateful for this video and Alison.
Halar Ali (7 дней назад)
Good One👍
Eva Torguet (8 дней назад)
please lovely people can you answer this survey? its about anxiety, for a school project. it would mean so much to me. thank you<3 @t​
Farfalla La Tunisienne (10 дней назад)
So sophisticated to understand this 😞
DAOQI ZHONG (12 дней назад)
Loss frames can easily stick, but you can train your brain to reverse it. Very significant and mind-changing idea. Thank you!
𝒸 𝒽 𝒾 𝓂 𝓂 𝓎 (13 дней назад)
you don’t even know how much this helps me. thank you.
Positive Chick (14 дней назад)
It is possible to train our mind to look at the positives. I was curious about this since I was young yet I didn’t have the tools. Thank God I kept my positive outlook and now helping others to look at the brighter side of life through the power of gratitude. Awesome talk! 😘
Ryan Johnson (15 дней назад)
We focus on the negative so that we can problem-solve in the backs of our minds. We are looking for answers to problems, not just arbitrarily choosing to view things negatively.
Alfonso Medina (17 дней назад)
I'd like to get stuck in her she's hot
ana parcetic (23 дня назад)
It's quite normal out minds and brains are working focusing on bad things because bad things are the one we need to fix. So by thinking and speaking about them, you have a feeling that you are looking for the solution. Because we are thought that be worried means we care about something/someone. And by those small things that we see as good actually won't change our super strong negatively thinking programs in the head. I tried it! So there must be some different technics to help us get rid of the negative programmed set. If some of you have some advice for techniques please let me know :). Have a great full day! Ana :)
norton wayne (23 дня назад)
thanks to all social systems and employment opportunities for never failing to criticise us for the one time we got it wrong and not congratulating us for the 99 times we got it right. Somewhere along the line, expectation rules out the latter and manipulation comes to mind in the former.
Dan The Movie Man (1 месяц назад)
This really helped me today. I needed this.
кαηєкι (1 месяц назад)
bad
Monique Dunn (1 месяц назад)
You know I started choosing to be happy no matter how bad my situation is and I started feeling like I was overcoming a test
Margarette Fischer (1 месяц назад)
Fabulous My goodness, how impressive!
leptoid (1 месяц назад)
It would appear that once you poison the information well, there is little chance of resetting.
Charlie-Flower-Child (1 месяц назад)
It takes work to see the UPSIDE! Amen!
john noe (1 месяц назад)
Glass half full or half empty. First of all who the F cares and it depends on what is in the glass, is it poison, is it something delicious.Since I'm not directly involved with this fictitious glass it's not affecting my life at all.Also, people who gamble a lot only tell about when they win and hey do this over and over and over. For some people they choose to only remember the good.
Maadili Centre (1 месяц назад)
Browsing youtube I came to this video.... THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
Engineer Asghar (1 месяц назад)
You are so beautiful. Love you
Girish (1 месяц назад)
Great way to start my day, first video of the day. :)
Rizwan Aboobacker Sideeque (1 месяц назад)
An amazing talk. Thank you! 🙌
Shahnawaz rafiya (1 месяц назад)
Superb!
Manisha Yonjan (1 месяц назад)
Just amazing. No other words to describe. 👏👏👏👏
BlackwatchCrazySix (1 месяц назад)
Now I know why Yoda said "fear is the path to the Dark Side" and "it is not powerful but more tempting". Negativity is really hardwired in our brains and feelings of revenge, resentment immediately hold on to our minds. If we can retrain ourselves to look for the upside, we can redeem ourselves. Fear is really path to the Dark Side even if you will not be susceptible to it. Let's train our heads to see the positives.
umesh bansal (1 месяц назад)
Wow superb video ever
Rod Clayton (1 месяц назад)
I think this is probably a servival skill. The person who is prepared an anticipating bad things may be more likly to servive then the one who focuses on the good things which can’t hurt them.
great Rowley (1 месяц назад)
She reminds me of my ex girlfriend Carrie RIP
Mia Lavier (1 месяц назад)
If you think positive and believe and visualize and then you get desappointed it hurts even more. Cause you believed more.
Julia Sirk (2 месяца назад)
Thank you Alison, this was very inspirational!
Orla Grace (2 месяца назад)
I wish there was a love button!
Pure Metro (2 месяца назад)
In short just think about the positive situations. There saved you ten minutes.
renz abuhan (2 месяца назад)
Amazing talk, but I felt like its to short. I want to hear more about "how".
jo M (2 месяца назад)
Needed something positive, got it and gonna stick to it.
Jonathan Stewardson (2 месяца назад)
Nice. Is negative dwelling an instinctive defence thing? Not long ago people were more vulnerable to predators. Even after a few good days, they would still be worrying about that day they were nearly eaten by a lion.
j9rd11 (2 месяца назад)
Fear leads to constant negativity. So to be positive is not to be afraid
frogprincessss (2 месяца назад)
Thank you. Great insight and take-away from your experience and research. I hope that educators, mentors, and people of authority listen to this talk. What they say to others can cause others to get stuck in negativity. Life in itself is a challenge, and for me, there is no need to keep on challenging people just to help them grow.
The Flat Belly Fix (2 месяца назад)
like the way you explained and articulated it. Excellent
Alex Finn (2 месяца назад)
If you are filling the glass, it is half full. If you are drinking out of the glass, it is half empty.
Dry Ice (2 месяца назад)
thats me when my paper gets rejected..stuck in that place.. so shame
Zulfi'anni' Husnar (2 месяца назад)
Thanks God, I found this video in the right time. What a mind-blowing speech. Thank you! :)
nikita jain (2 месяца назад)
Refreshing and relaxing.. Made my day 😃
MC (2 месяца назад)
Our "reptilian" vs "conscient brain".Animal life it's based on "reptilian brain".We mesure our "conscient brain" in IQ.Lower IQ, balance tilted to "reptilian brain".It's not about good or bad way of thinking.
Yoga with Christina Joy (2 месяца назад)
Such an important lesson! <3
kramer26 (2 месяца назад)
I can totally relate to this... I have had more negative experiences in my life than positive but still try to see the glass as half full, even though it is incredibly difficult.
Quentin Laster (3 месяца назад)
I recently found out I have OCD, mental illness and a drug addition problem. I sought help and ended up at Lakeridge Village. They messed me up worse and instilled negative thinking in me so bad I started feeling ashamed of myself and adapted their training of negative thinking. Further the instilled into me FEAR, robbed me repeatedly and violated my recipient and constitutional rights repeatedly and then kicked me out into the streets homeless for complaining. Today I'm stuck in the negatives emotionally and in thinking. This video has reminded me that approaching life with a strong positive spirit leading the way I pray and believe I'll get back to "the glass is full" with enough room to learn positiveness again.
Mgtow Boo Boo (3 месяца назад)
mgtow is freedom
Mgtow Boo Boo (3 месяца назад)
mgtow
The Jurassic Builder (3 месяца назад)
Please I do not know what to do because I moved to a new school and I had a friend last year that went to the same school in my elementary school but now I'm new in middle school and she has no friends and she does not know how to make new friends so I feel bad and stay with her when I get so many opportunities to go sit and talk with NEW people and I really want to but I just can not without leaving her and if I go with other people and have more friends then she will leave me and then and be alone again and I dont what that go happen and in her eyes I will be a fake friend and I am not a fake friend. People ask if I want to sit with them at lunch but I always say sorry I am busy. But I want to sit with new people once and a while, you know.
The Jurassic Builder (3 месяца назад)
Do I have to leave her. Just to make new and more friends. Or should I stay with her.
Tamara Djordjevic (3 месяца назад)
Take a shot of vodka every time she stays 'participants'.
ASH YOYOE (3 месяца назад)
eli and nozomi yuri
Andrew Buckland (3 месяца назад)
Great stuff and engaging delivery
Chirag Patel (3 месяца назад)
Very informative and motivating.. Thank you..
Joy (3 месяца назад)
While people were arguing about half glass full or empty.. I drank the water..😂😂😂
bhuwan shah (3 месяца назад)
Really amazing way of explaining.
RAttahta (3 месяца назад)
I dont want to reinforce bad behavior by rewarding her with a bigger tip
Lorena (3 месяца назад)
its not the governer's fault that jobs were lost its the crooks at the top
Amy Winehouse (3 месяца назад)
I found this upload very interesting - so called psychics{all charlatans} work by throwing out loads of this and that and eventually they'll get a hit and people soon forget how many miss's they had and just take the hits,they might not even relate straight to that hit but will somehow in their minds twist what they've been told and make it fit to something in their life or someone they know but clearly forget most if not all of the miss's almost instantly.
revolution (3 месяца назад)
Thank you so much
BTS World (3 месяца назад)
Thank you for this. I've always tried to keep a positive mindset but lately its been really hard for me to stay positive because I'm surrounded by all this negativity. I'm told I laugh too much and I need to be less happy and be more serious😐 little do they know I'm going through alot in the inside and I try to appear happy on the outside inhopes to gain happiness.
SHAAH HAMEED (3 месяца назад)
Human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. *But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we STAY ALIVE for* - Robbin Williams
nano nano (4 месяца назад)
Thank you now I'm feeling good.
nazri madeus (4 месяца назад)
I am the one is live in difficult life
Green Goblin (4 месяца назад)
I'd like to fill your glass
MrJerryNadon (4 месяца назад)
Reading the comments here, it is nice to see that this talk inspires people, but looking at it anylitically, I would be interested how high is the euphoria with good news to how low the depression is with the bad news in comparison. I would also be interested in knowing if people that get bad news and let it affect their lives, when they don't get back right away to their original base line if eventually they accept their new mood as the new base line. Thus bad news brings them lower, new base line, bad news brings them lower, new base line, so good news isn't viewed as good news anymore. Clinical depression. You people are right though, it is a good talk that shows we should start helping people view things in a positive aspect.
littleteethkeith (4 месяца назад)
I wish I was pretty and skinny. I will just have to hit the gym and settle for skinny.
Rohit Goswami (4 месяца назад)
Alison God bless u take care dear .... Rohit Goswami Delhi good night sweetheart
Richy Rich (4 месяца назад)
The glass is always half full; half of zero is zero (0/2=0). The glass is half full so make the most of what you have. (You're welcome)
Tina Shen (4 месяца назад)
Negativity sticks. I really need to hear it.
Wabbit Hunter (4 месяца назад)
Glass is half empty vs glass is half full......... ME~ who the FOOOK drank half my beer!
Wabbit Hunter (4 месяца назад)
"How not to be a liberal." I like it.
Wabbit Hunter (4 месяца назад)
I "think" you should get a better haircut. Also, I "think" you should ask someone if you look good in that outfit...........
BulukEtznab (4 месяца назад)
I thank and agree with her point wholeheartedly. The only little grain of salt I found was the statistic about the "Economy" and "Confidence" example, which from my point of view clearly is caused by the extreme increase in income inequality after the recession - especially in the US. So, I'll still add this to my favorites since this tiny "grain of salt" can easily be explained and fixed...and also explains, why people got "stuck" in that mindset: since when you do not have the experience of things going better for your personally, you cannot make it up - that won't pay your bills (thinking you have more money than you actually have ;-) ).
stmarceau (4 месяца назад)
Thank you. Gratefulness helps me so much. Your talk was another positive thing to be thankful at the end of the day.
Chandrakant Suryawanshi (4 месяца назад)
mindset
lil cinnamon (4 месяца назад)
she’s fuckin awesome. i wanna know about her
JAY SHARMA (4 месяца назад)
Pooja Sharma
Geoff Harrop (4 месяца назад)
Evolution has made watching out for danger a priority so you are wiser when you remember not to repeat what fails. Failure is a great teacher. Avoid making mistakes and you will do better and survive longer. Also remember to move on having learned the lesson. We are creatures of habit so be aware of any repetition of negative thinking . Replace a bad habit with a good one.
seven seveen (4 месяца назад)
so far ive seen it as "the glass is glass. glass is breakable. everything sucks. fuckit"
Jeff Doe (5 месяцев назад)
Cure AIDs, then we'll talk Ted
DCJ Andrews (5 месяцев назад)
Great ideas. Thank you!
The Meltons (5 месяцев назад)
Just what I needed this morning. Thank you.
Uriel238 (5 месяцев назад)
The economy around the 2008 Subprime Mortgage Crisis isn't a particularly good example. Although the stock market bounced back, most of the gains returned to the more affluent bracket, where the much more populous middle-middle and lower-middle classes languished with their reduced spending power. So to most of us, the recovery matches the consumer outlook graph Alison presented. That _may_ have to do with the negativity attitude-polarization Dr. Ledgerwood suggests, but it also correlates with the common real experience Americans have faced in the aftermath of the 2008 crisis without that bias.
Aries_in_DC (5 месяцев назад)
Interesting talk but it focused on studies demonstrating a transfer from positive thinking to negative, without also showing corresponding studies that demonstrate what led from negative thinking to positive thinking. I would really like to learn more about evidence based approaches to enhancing positive thinking.
shanthi carol (5 месяцев назад)
The bible says , be anxious for nothing.
God's Community (5 месяцев назад)
Hello everyone. The time is yours... Enjoy your life! 🔥🔥
Alondra Giselle Nuñez (5 месяцев назад)
I LOVE THIS VIDEO SO MUCH! POSITIVITY IS EVERYTHING, DETACH FROM THE NEGATIVITY!
DrumWild (5 месяцев назад)
I had no idea that The Valley Girl accent still existed. It’s very distracting.
Adebowale (5 месяцев назад)
DrumWild because you’re focused on the wrong things
Paul R. (5 месяцев назад)
Maybe being stuck in failure is a evolutionary trait that has made humans to get better throughout time
Jr Roq (5 месяцев назад)
This what management needs to learn rather than being negative
immanence (5 месяцев назад)
That was phenomenal
Pooja Jagadale (6 месяцев назад)
Thanks Elision, you just made my day😊
youtux2 (6 месяцев назад)
OK, not fair to give an extra large tip to the grumpy waitress. But the rest: awesome! :-)
Katrina Dorman (6 месяцев назад)
Thank you for sharing. Making the change today!
Ernest Joseph (6 месяцев назад)
Thank you for this 🙂🥛

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