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How to Have a Good Conversation | Celeste Headlee | TEDxCreativeCoast

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When your job hinges on how well you talk to people, you learn a lot about how to have great conversations – and most of us don’t converse very well. A great conversation requires a balance between talking and listening. This balance is important because bad communication leads to bad relationships, at home, at work, everywhere. Celeste Headlee has worked in public radio since 1999, as a reporter, host, and correspondent. She was the Midwest Correspondent for NPR before becoming the co-host of the PRI show The Takeaway. She also guest hosted a number of NPR shows including Tell Me More, Talk of the Nation, Weekend All Things Considered, and Weekend Edition. Celeste holds multiple degrees in music and still performs as a professional opera singer. She's the granddaughter of composer William Grant Still, the Dean of African American Composers. Celeste is an avid hiker, biker, paddler and dog walker. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
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Christopher Joseph (1 час назад)
I know bill nye is not a real scientist. I am an expert in bill nye.
Duality FIRM (14 часов назад)
Dollars, I can use. -Maysin Pure
Duality FIRM (14 часов назад)
Flow.. Currency.. Dolls. -Maysin Pure
Duality FIRM (14 часов назад)
Terrified.. Terror.. Terrific. Terrorize.. I like terrific. -Maysin Pure
Duality FIRM (14 часов назад)
Predictability is created from Chaos. Beware. Neuroplasticity.. yes Bill Nye.. but it is his NAME.-Maysin Pure
Duality FIRM (14 часов назад)
Be present.. Don't be a present. -Maysin Pure
Duality FIRM (14 часов назад)
It shouldn't be referred to as paying attention. People do not know what they are doing. ADD and ADHD or both suicide profiting terms made up. I hope the U.S. Government wants a way out. -Maysin Pure
Duality FIRM (14 часов назад)
I offer coherence. From Modern Sang Records. -Maysin Pure
Duality FIRM (14 часов назад)
not ph,ones
Duality FIRM (14 часов назад)
pol-a-r-ized
Duality FIRM (14 часов назад)
here? divided? watch the psychedelics one.
Malala Deppe (19 часов назад)
And I absolutely agree with you. My father taught me that you always can learn something new from everyone. He used to say " living is growing up, and the day you stop growing up means you are dead. And growing up mean learning every day. " and " different point of view will feed your soul" . So every conversation I start I started with that intention but when I try to exchange ideas or points of view with my husband he goes mad". Always. And I am really trying to understand a new culture here.
Malala Deppe (19 часов назад)
YEs !! I love it !! you are totally right...there is no reason in look like you are paying attention if you are not paying attention! I Grow up in a Family who enjoys conversation and I having a hard time to have a conversation with my American Husband. He doesn't listen. that's it.
The Amazing Grace (22 часа назад)
🙏🏼
Swishaleo T (1 день назад)
A lot of her quotes come from famous atheists. Just an observation.
DKP 0 (1 день назад)
Main content starts at 04:31
Angelo De Ieso (3 дня назад)
It's hard to ignore her jewelry clicking. That is distracting. But I love her speech.
Bayan Mahadeen (3 дня назад)
I really enjoy it the best Ted talk ever
icecrmpntjb (3 дня назад)
1:18 what about like the civil war lol
Fresh & Clean (5 дней назад)
The miniskirt slide was right on point.
Маргарита Пазич (5 дней назад)
Great talk!Thank you so much.
kishor lawate (5 дней назад)
Great..
Abhishek Kumre (5 дней назад)
Samne wale ke dhyan se suno aur word selection krna bohot jruri hai jab bhi kuch bolo
MIKE B (7 дней назад)
The only people who have a hard time with conversations are the Democrats!!!!
Eric Cartman (7 дней назад)
"7. Try not to repeat yourself" On the one hand this is true, but on the other hand it can be a psychologically effective persuasive device, as used a lot by Trump during his presidential campaign. He repeated himself a lot which led to people better memorizing and accepting his messages. I guess this also depends on the way and context in which you do it.
Phenix e (8 дней назад)
Listen to understand, not reply. My favorite comment of Celeste's presentation.
A. B. (8 дней назад)
Love this woman!
Daniel Muñoz (8 дней назад)
I naturally do almost all rules and i found that not all people are admirable, many people repet themselves, many people are too brief and they talk superficially, almost none of them do well with open question and generally their personality arent too deep. So now I ignore you before you show you have something to express. I met people who dont do much but they can express huge amount of experience and people who do much but they arent even interested in their own life and when you talk to them they are in their smartphone.
Subhrajyoti Majumdar (8 дней назад)
wow... amazing..
Milubee (9 дней назад)
wow, i thought i am pretty good at listening apart from some topics where i get easily hurt or insulted but these tips are great. can't imagine a single person who couldn't learn something from these. repeatedly. :)
AweSum PowerZ (9 дней назад)
10:47
Dylan Parker (10 дней назад)
i love the start of this - lady in the bottom left hand corner who raises her hand to indicate that she unfriended a FB friend because "they said something offensive about food" xD
Personal Discovery (11 дней назад)
Very good talk!
RTSC (12 дней назад)
In order to have a good conversation I need something to talk about!
Sicellia Tsui (12 дней назад)
bless!!!
International Women Leaders (13 дней назад)
❤❤❤❤❤
Chase Pecore (13 дней назад)
what if both are the listener
Cliffinho Kisero (13 дней назад)
Great
Believers tv (13 дней назад)
Talking to humans is always a challenge
Jacqueline H (14 дней назад)
Terrific speech
Kathleen Kavanagh (14 дней назад)
Best most valuable talk I've ever heard! Life changing! Thank you so much! Kathy
Jake Purdham (14 дней назад)
Ds-
tania stalinskaya (15 дней назад)
tiens , une conseillere de la banque charles gaves aristote vallieres melanchon pouahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Ali Elmodux (15 дней назад)
I've always thought he was a good talker with a great conversation skill. I fulfill many of the points that she comments, but I've realized that some ones I used them backwards. One of the best Ted Talks of all time. 10/10
Jessica Agbasi Obeng (15 дней назад)
Minute 3:34 is the best one ! So many times I have stopped paying attention because I've distracted myself by wanting to show that I am paying attention! - This is the best advice I have heard in a very long time. Thanks!
Xxqueen o f starbucksxX (15 дней назад)
“ 1/3 of teenagers are likely to send 100 tact’s a day” Me: the only person on my contacts is my phone company
Sandy Makin (15 дней назад)
I listened! You gave a short, to the point talk! I learned! I am amazed!😉
Emily Star (15 дней назад)
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Stephanie Myerscough (16 дней назад)
I love this woman. I really do
Trinity Rodriguez (17 дней назад)
Wow, I truly enjoyed this one
Cristian Bureriu (17 дней назад)
I always order MacDonalds and Sonic using the iPhone app. No need to talk to the speaker. No need to make pointless conversation.
Veni Vidi Amavi (17 дней назад)
*tbh it's hard when the person doesn't know how to hold a conversation, but even then it can be done. I think that the other tips of looking someone in the eye are great, repeating back etc are great. I love eye contact, it's my favorite*
LIFE DAILY (17 дней назад)
Great video thanks again to you
Lord Zeref (18 дней назад)
That guy in the back that was laughing super hard!!!
Mutant Spartacus (18 дней назад)
I listened my way out of many jobs, claim refuted.
A New Love Official (19 дней назад)
It's very important to listen to this kind of people because they give us so many ideas on how to make our life better and to let us know what is the importance of having a great communication.
Janet Mack (20 дней назад)
set aside one self
Janet Mack (20 дней назад)
the impotance of knowing about brain damage
Temitope Odubayo (20 дней назад)
One of the best TED talks I've listened to!! Awesome delivery!!!
Kuutamo73 (22 дня назад)
You end up avoiding someone who monopolizes the conversation
Kcie Mimido (22 дня назад)
The Germans require facts, hence you need to present dates, lines, numbers, every minute details possible 🙆 😁 😁 😀
Aura Scope (22 дня назад)
I know her, she's Hagrid's daughter.
Samuel Low (22 дня назад)
Will this get me girls?
Eric William Champio Manley (22 дня назад)
this has everything to do with education and simple "right/wrong," "yes/no," testing procedures
LovingAtlanta (22 дня назад)
🤔If everybody listened then no one would be talking. 🤨😩
Emilio Martinez (23 дня назад)
It's really funny cause I'm thirteen and I hate texting my friends
William Bruce Wilhite (23 дня назад)
It is always best to listen to your enemies. They are trying to inform you about themselves.
Redouane bouanika (23 дня назад)
Hey friend I am redone from maroco I want one person I want to practice English with me and I practice Arabic with him my Skype is Redouane.bouanika
A Penandroll (24 дня назад)
Everyday we are exposed to be offended or to offend someone for what we say. Thats just called reality. So for those who are afraid of words, grow up and stop whining about it.
Alex Riley (24 дня назад)
This is a great speech. I'd love to hear more from her.
REED RICHARDS (24 дня назад)
Trying to talk to people is pointless.  The average human brain is a few fries short of a happy meal and it is only getting worse.  The world is a cesspool of homicidal maniacs and anyone who thinks that this condition can be turned around is delusional.
Michael Root (25 дней назад)
Fantastic speech!
Rachel W (25 дней назад)
Really nice talk, great advice. I like the idea of "preparing to be amazed" by just listening to people...very cool. Thank you! I am a hairstylist, and next time you're doing a Ted talk, allow me to volunteer my services please.
Jitendra Gupta (25 дней назад)
This is interesting, even I think we are fighting a lot rather than listening and thinking from their perspective
Erfan Lumban-Gaol (26 дней назад)
We need to stop spreading this idea of division. That is the first step of undivision. Stop creating this belief that we are more divided than ever. We human race have developed through ages to get to this point where society has never been this accessible to one another and able to communicate one common language, if not a couple. You miss out the progress we have accomplished from the past and tunnelvision yourself to current. No offense to you but please spread more constructive topics to promote growth.
Eric (27 дней назад)
what is not covered here, i feel to be the most important part of conversation... beyond listening, how is it best to reply to information spoken by the other party?
Miles Codias (27 дней назад)
Listen
QuickCrafts (27 дней назад)
she had great stage presence
Kareem Mirtyl (28 дней назад)
What are some conversation starters?
Kunal Tajane (28 дней назад)
What I've learned during my past work experience is that try to extract more information rather than giving
Jared McDade (28 дней назад)
What'd she say. I wasn't paying attention
Gulnara Art (29 дней назад)
Thank you!
t e r I N E E D L E R (29 дней назад)
It’s called political cirrectnesss that’s very polarising
Noah Norton (29 дней назад)
I wish all conversations were like Vogue 73 Question Interviews
SkyKing (29 дней назад)
She's right .... but it's too late the idiots have taken over every aspect of life
Mama Mabaleen (1 месяц назад)
She came to my school and talked
Emily Cannon (1 месяц назад)
This is so awesome, presented so well and very helpful.
zeev aloni (1 месяц назад)
Empathy
Monsieur Mouche (1 месяц назад)
I came to learn how to talk with people but I realized that I really don't care about people... MEH, I have to find a better purpose of life
Bonney Dahlquist (1 месяц назад)
Wow!! She is really a bad teacher. If you want to talk to someone its better to show you have something in common. If someone hates there job. Then they want to talk to someone who can relate. This lady is clearly out of touch with reality.
ned ned (1 месяц назад)
begone tho- 💥🔨
Sawyer_tv (1 месяц назад)
1:10 LOL just wait until you see the 2016 election.
iEuno1 (1 месяц назад)
People who try to make others seem as bragging about their IQ are also losers and worst.
iEuno1 (1 месяц назад)
You have to listen to work as an orderly in a mental hospital. You have to report it to the nurse. Communication skills in Systems Analysis include good report form to the authorities to approve budget as well as other.
Gil Alvarado (1 месяц назад)
Celeste Headlee 2020
Hue Hue (1 месяц назад)
be good looking, women will try to have a conversation instead of just giving you one word answers.
zakaria elharite (1 месяц назад)
The average person talks at about 225 words per minute and I have to listen up to someone who speak 500 word per minute I'm little bit confuse !!!
angela gouldsborough (1 месяц назад)
Listening is a SKILL .... to just be quiet and not cutting in with your own comment ... LISTENING is about HEARING what was said ... being PRESENT and able to repeat back what was said .... I just got out of a 10 year relationship with a covert narcissist.... They of course are NEVER wrong ... which of course means they are ALWAYS right ... and his version of listening was to not talk ... Well that was a BONUS for him cuz he hated talking .... But he never really HEARD anything I said ! ... Consequently the relationship ended .... MOSTLY because of his emotional immaturity and his inability to communicate ANYTHING .... and without EVER feeling heard on top of never feeling valued for what I brought to the relationship.... OH and of course his numerous bouts of infidelity didn’t help ! But as a narcissist cheating just comes with the territory ... Not saying I didn’t have a part in it all cuz that’s not possible when two people are involved .... HOWEVER when you are never really HEARD how can you continue to feel PART of something ... YOU CANT ...
Eon Lee Music (1 месяц назад)
My go-to conversation-starter: "So do you like weather?"
NachOooZ Macho (28 дней назад)
Awkward it’s supposed to be “hows the weather doing ya today” or “the weather treating you well this fine afternoon?”
Paul Tavener (1 месяц назад)
Very good once she got to the point !

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