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How to stop screwing yourself over | Mel Robbins | TEDxSF

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Never miss a talk! SUBSCRIBE to the TEDx channel: http://bit.ly/1FAg8hB Mel Robbins is a married working mother of three, an ivy-educated criminal lawyer, and one of the top career and relationship experts in America. Widely respected for her grab-'em-by-the-collar advice and tough love, Robbins drills through the mental clutter that stands between people and what they want. Her approach is smart, effective and entertaining. Five days a week, Mel hosts her own syndicated radio show The Mel Robbins Show, discussing hot topics and giving advice to callers across America. She is starring in a new series, In-Laws, airing this summer on A&E. In addition, she writes a monthly column for Success Magazine, is a former CNBC contributor and is the co-founder of Advice for Living, Inc., which develops products and television programming with experts in the wellness, health, relationship and career categories. Most nights, once the kids are in bed, you'll find Mel at home with a bourbon on the rocks and her Australian Shepherd at her feet, writing about life, love and everything else on her award-winning blog: www.melrobbins.com event video by: http://repertoireproductions.com/
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Krithika Alva (31 минуту назад)
Amazing.. the first five seconds 😇
plain old danny (12 часов назад)
IVE ABANDONED MY PROCRASTINATION
Gina Wolf (19 часов назад)
That was wonderful, to say the least. I have been working for a long time to avoid and overcome that 'I don't feel like it stage' It is truly very difficult to get rid of. I have always tried to keep my 'I'm fine' to a longer version in my head. I use to say ' I'm fine ' and think 'at least I will be', knowing that I have a lot of plans that will one day come to life. I have adapted all of this from time to time to get more to happen from it. Now I tend to think and say ' I'm ok. I have plans and though I'm still working on them, I make a point to ACTUALLY work on them here and there at the very least. I still have a lot of 'not in the mood' moments. I do however have more and more ' Just do it, just do something, anything.. moments. I also tend to overdo things when I get a good start on something and get determined to just keep going, to the point where it affects the rest of my life negatively. I really need to work on some sort of balance and make myself keep to it. That seems like a very difficult task. I'm grateful that you and so many others are spending so much time trying to help others in real and positive ways and the most important ways, I think, to help people help themselves.
alone wu (20 часов назад)
You are amazing!!!! l will do my best to get my best life!!!
Rob Ot (23 часа назад)
Feisty!
Amber Dominguez (1 день назад)
Best damn speech ever with 3 kids and trying to go back to school i needed this!! THANK YOU MEL ROBBINS!!!
shreya batra (2 дня назад)
Just watched the most inspiring ted talk ever .
Soma ahmed (2 дня назад)
14M subscribers for Tedx , 15M views for her ❤
Mel Tabalan (2 дня назад)
I want to have my own salon/beauty parlor. To realize this, I need people to work for me who are really passionate in giving services to people coming in. I need a place accessible to people. I need capital to start my business. I am 43 years old and I want this materialize in two years time....In Jesus name, this is my prayer.Amen!
licha kelley (2 дня назад)
sometimes these talks do it for me, sometimes they don't. this one didn't. really? people pay her for this?
Mshanxo (2 дня назад)
Thank you for this I needed to hear this today
Brooke Bearden (3 дня назад)
i like her
Maxamillion (3 дня назад)
nice rack. I came
Thomas Ramirez (3 дня назад)
I have what I want
Fien (3 дня назад)
I agree with the sentiment that we should strive for more than fine, and that we are our own worst enemies. However, I find she presents the issue much too simplistic and individualistic. She kind of propagates the "its poor people's fault they're poor" mentality.
Gunslingerheel (3 дня назад)
100,000,000 people seems like a great investment
Steven Barnes (3 дня назад)
That's all well and good but I think if everybody just starts acting on impulse there will be a lot more people in prison. People actually needs to weigh up the pros and cons of their thoughts before acting on them.
Mathias Frandsen (4 дня назад)
This Will help me so mutch i Can feel it thank you!
Samrat Chatterjee (4 дня назад)
This is one of the best talks I came across. Beautiful. Made me stop to think for a while.
Ireshan Wickramasinghe (4 дня назад)
such a Great speech.this speech move to stay on my track.
Maritsa Darman (5 дней назад)
i want to get people to stop having kids like a hole in their head so that the planet's resources can be better managed to sustain our civilization.
Vici Munyandamutsa (5 дней назад)
Thank you so much
nidhi pundir (6 дней назад)
u r too good ,u inspired me to do things and yes i m not fine becoz i m fantastic
Ian Flanegan (6 дней назад)
This lady is trying too hard to be funny and she is obnoxious AF.
javier josefides (6 дней назад)
WOMEN SHOULD BE MORE EMPOWERED. WE SHOULD give them more home appliances. 😂😂😂
Aditya Barhanpurkar (6 дней назад)
yes..you are extremely right...!! i decide every night about to change my life,loosing weight,study hard,work on personality.. but... as you said i was not able to woke up eary in the morning.. (someone may think this is simple work,and we have more complex tasks to do, but if you cannt do this, then what else you expect from more hard jobs...?) i decide at night but cannt do it..and i known may be this is the reason i am stucked in depression and all that hopeless things.. all i need is just some activation energy, a force which i had not untill i saw this video....u just ignite my brain as machine...!! all you said is just amazing but now it is my responsibility to make it realastic and get actual result...all that i need is force... belive me, i totaly agree guys, if you cannt break your routine, you cannt do anything in your life...!! TRUE' and thank u very much🙏 mam..
Gena L. (6 дней назад)
That audience looked pretty brain dead.
Carlos Rivera (6 дней назад)
self image.
Sonia Okonkwo (7 дней назад)
Very inspiring and she’s very confident too....I aspire to be this confident
Aviate (7 дней назад)
She is brilliant.
George Pan (7 дней назад)
9:42 Unless the dog made that picture, that's weird
Diana Ordaz (8 дней назад)
Wow, Really enjoyed this!
Patti Pestana (9 дней назад)
Outstanding!!!
Diorama Ma (9 дней назад)
I'm French and she said "croissant" so well, with a perfect French accent :o
Avi (10 дней назад)
People born in third rate and violent third worlds are also one in trillion so it makes no sense. I am tired of this pseudo profound nonsense.
Jonathon Thompson (10 дней назад)
Is it a mistype? 400 billion was on screen instead of 400 trillion
Paradise Vegas (10 дней назад)
man boobs
aashiq aashi (10 дней назад)
great talk, it made me awake,thankyou
tokyoghoulsucks (10 дней назад)
i want to start my own secret organization and destroy the planet and end every one's suffering 2:37
Ankita (10 дней назад)
Thanks Mel...
Jamie Cheng (10 дней назад)
Needed this to start on my idea. Let's go!
Pakiza Ahmadi (11 дней назад)
Just super 👍🏻
Stefani Kalcheva (11 дней назад)
Awesome! Thank you for this video!
boson96 (11 дней назад)
*MILF*
santhosh (11 дней назад)
Good presentation. Beautiful woman.
Priyanka Banerjee (11 дней назад)
Its incredible. Loved the vedio. Wanted to also know, how to be emotionally independent and live life. Am dependent on my loved ones, when they hurt, am upset. I want to work and achieve my goals, just the emotional quotient disturbs the schedule. Please help.
Adamantus XCV (12 дней назад)
What a brilliant woman!
General Zubbis (12 дней назад)
Love her energy😄
Lindsay Gonzales (12 дней назад)
What a great speaker
staygrateful (12 дней назад)
thank you for this ~
Mark Reutzel (13 дней назад)
(5 second rule) You are a Rockstar! Thank you so much! (5 second rule) Gotta go do something else now, Bye!
Jerry Carrera (13 дней назад)
fantastic woman. lovely boobs underneath
SUCCESS NATION (13 дней назад)
Freaking awesome.
Karma Kuro (14 дней назад)
She should meet Shia Lebouf. Just do it.
Ian, the person (14 дней назад)
That... was actually pretty helpful.
Jam Mangubat (14 дней назад)
Annoying
Boost World Peace (14 дней назад)
She's awesome!
A. S. (15 дней назад)
After listening to that, I definitely want to hold you by the ears & "bury the bone", balls deep, in your face. Specially if you can keep your rant going while I expel my load. But I'm now positive that one time would also be the last time.
Lauren James (15 дней назад)
I’ve been pulling the break for over 20yrs
Master Andrew (15 дней назад)
This channel has kept me clean and I learn here.
Anu Santhosh (15 дней назад)
Really inspirational😊😊
Pandak k (15 дней назад)
Mel ❤️
OsamaExKing (15 дней назад)
She has the demeanor of a reality tv star, her speech is incoherent and all over the place, she could have constructed her advice in so much less time than 21 minutes, but overall, she has good tips under her belt.
Live It Or Make it (16 дней назад)
What about a good paying job that I can't seem to get, a boyfriend and some friends I'm 46 years old and very very alone and broke unemployed.
Aditya Barhanpurkar (6 дней назад)
Live It Or Make it honestly i feel very sad about your condition..i cannot even imagine how hard it would be to make friends and to be alone at your age.. because i am just 22 and i was just overthinking and needlessly thinking my problems way too complex, but i hope in your condition it will be problem of just time and you will get solution of this, i hope you will find what u want and just if possible do something different or something you want to do or just add something new task to do and good luck mam👍 i am toooo young to say you this but good luck to u
Tasha G (16 дней назад)
Honestly I needed to hear that. "You are never gonna feel like it."
Marian Foley (16 дней назад)
Mel robbins most inspiring speech
Laura Kalin (16 дней назад)
I love the idea of being randomly impulsive. I wonder if the hot guy I work with will like me humping him at 6 seconds :)
Laika Ma Belle (16 дней назад)
C'est quoi TED ? une organisation de conférences ?
UsiFrom010 (17 дней назад)
it seems like the biggest problem in life is a snooze button lol
Beats Of Nivedita (17 дней назад)
Best ted talk
Stephen Giles (18 дней назад)
This has got similarities with Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway, but both have unique points.
Natoya Abiola (18 дней назад)
Life-changing... activating energy :)
Mehwish Rana (18 дней назад)
Answer to your title ...By screwing you... lol jk lol
WISDOM FOR LIFE (18 дней назад)
5 second rule - when you have an impulse, you must take physical action within 5 seconds, or your mind will hit the emergency brake (stop you from doing it/talk you out of it). So, the next time you have an impulse to do something (something positive of course), count down from 5 to 1 and then do it! Take action.
Paul Googol (6 дней назад)
what about a 15 minute nap before that?
_fukUnicorn_ (19 дней назад)
I always answer “how are you” honestly and then immediately regret it because people generally ask that question and a rhetorical way. Doh!
Ethan Thurman (19 дней назад)
Wow losing the effort to do calisthenics but after hearing this wow
Edge of the Med (19 дней назад)
Fear that's what holds us back. We know what we want it matters more to do something about it
J D'Accardi Vaughan (19 дней назад)
"You wouldn't hang out with someone who spoke to you the way you speak to yourself" brilliant
liligman (20 дней назад)
TL;DR: DO IT!
frozen yoghurt (21 день назад)
GO DO ITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!
Emily Mast (21 день назад)
tl;dr: JUST DO IT!
hadassa30 (21 день назад)
I think I need some help to do this. Like 220 Volts...
Young Jarsh (21 день назад)
She's fuckin' good. Compelling.
Jkjjjkjjj Djskkskkl (21 день назад)
oh my goodness! she is so wise, funny, and speaks with such urgency that you look at your own life with a fresh outlook.
Jorgeruiz (22 дня назад)
Another how to be succesful video...
margarita margarita (23 дня назад)
so when does she have time for husband?
margarita margarita (23 дня назад)
croissants are great! you can have both chicken and peas and croissants...:)
Kateyez31 R (24 дня назад)
This made me cry.
Brad M (24 дня назад)
9:45 OK, You, hubby 2 kids -- who's taking the picture??? Coz the dog is only one I cant see.. hmmm ...
ChristsCrackers (24 дня назад)
One of the best damn TEDx Talks on the internet.
Lavanjay Sharma (25 дней назад)
Thanks a lot Mel ! life changing stuff.
Fanny Mae (25 дней назад)
Eh
Ya Ku (25 дней назад)
Poor Doug. If he didn't know, he sure does now that he is fantastic 😂
Michael Child (25 дней назад)
this is the cure to the procrastination as described by tim urban in his TED talk on it but ironically it's hard to make yourself learn due to the personality rebelling and not making yourself watch this over and over to learn and unlearn a lifetimes of disorganised behaviour hahahahahaha
f duff (25 дней назад)
Ķwuason lol
erika abdul (26 дней назад)
I never really feel like it. Yes.
Whitney Nike lover (26 дней назад)
She’s a great motivation speaker
Reynan Agapito (27 дней назад)
Watched this after watching Impact Theory :D
Tshego Mokonoto (27 дней назад)
I am fine is the most annoying answer ever!
Trần Thanh Mai (28 дней назад)
i knew that my every thing is wrong, it was some last year, but, i was in the state that i'm "fine, my life is still accepted", so i did nothing. it's been like that several year, i'm more and more hopelessly, so i just only think that "i'm fine" but that inside, i know that my future will be from grey to back if i continueing do nothing

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